Cerebral Confinement

     An article I read today on the Nautilus website (nautilus.us) told the story of two very different siblings, one a designer of rock climbing walls that is able to move quickly past misfortunes and another a Ph.D. immunology student that often worries herself to exhaustion. The former is very attached to the outside world while the latter lives within her own head (Sedivy, 2015).

     A study conducted in 2010 revealed that people spend half their time thinking about something other than what they are currently doing. A wandering mind allows one to plan for the future and is associated strongly with creativity. Mind-wandering also leads to distracted mistakes and is possibly connected to neuroticism, a personality style that is defined by anxiety, obsessive negative thoughts, and depression. Adam Perkins, a clinical psychologist at King’s College London, argue that “the engine of neuroticism is inward thought” (Sedivy, 2015).

     1 Peter 5:6-8 reads, “So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor. Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you. Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.” (NLT) It’s easy to become trapped within our own heads, sometimes worrying about things that will never happen. The enemy uses our distraction in the same way a lion takes advantage of distracted prey. When you find yourself consumed by negative thoughts, breathe deeply and consider the moment. What is in your control? What must you leave in God’s hands? There is always hope, no matter how troubling your circumstances. Get out of your head and live. – JMW

A Failure to Communicate

     Back in 1992,  language expert Donald Rubin conducted an experiment that revealed it’s possible to hallucinate a foreign accent. He conducted a fake class for 60 undergraduate students. The students were shown photos of two nearly identical professors, one being Caucasian and the other Chinese. A recording of a woman from Ohio reading an article from the New York Times was played while the students viewed the two different photos individually. Though the same voice was played with each photo, students gave lower ratings to the Chinese professor, claiming that she had an accent that made her more difficult to understand. A similar study was conducted this year at the University of British Columbia in Vancouver. This time, the students listened to a Caucasian and a Chinese professor but could not see them. They were able to understand both professors equally.

     1 Peter 3:8-12 contains God’s recipe for good communication. Readers are told to sympathize, love each other, be tenderhearted, and pay insults back with a blessing. However, once we’ve decided the character of someone else, it’s difficult not to filter everything someone says and does through who we’ve decided they are. I’m not saying that no one gives us information from which we might draw conclusions. Some individuals disappoint us repeatedly. But, God does not see things that aren’t there. He want us to forgive, forget, and learn to live in harmony with each other. We can’t do this if we continue to over-analyze the words and actions of others. We each communicate in unique ways. Our brains find it difficult to interpret accents and forms of communication we aren’t familiar with. That doesn’t mean we should ignore each other. 

The Need to Reprieve

They say justice is blind.

Well that must be why

that time after time

I don't act so kind.

I'd rather prosecute

or start a dispute

than end every feud

or refuse to be crude.

I lay awake at night

and relive every fight.

With all of my might

I remain very trite.

We take record of wrongs.

We write angry songs.

If we were more strong

we'd all get along.

Let go of the hate

before it's too late.

You can change your fate

or divide at high rates.

Who made us judge and jury?

Who filled our hearts with fury?

Will someone please cure me

and awaken the pure me?

We serve the God of love

who sends grace from above.

It descends like a dove

when push comes to shove.

Christ was gentle and meek

while turning his cheek.

Sin free and unique

is the savior I seek.

My old self is lost.

Anger is not my boss.

Heart not covered in frost,

all sins nailed to the cross.