Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?

Researches have discovered that people who break more rules are generally found to be more likable, even after brief meetings. They have also discovered that these people contain a certain gene that can be linked to rebelliousness. It is pretty obvious that children labeled as “teachers’ pets” are the most targeted by bullies. I can support this from a series of personal experiences. I will allow you, the reader, to determine which side of these infractions I found myself on most often.
Alexandra Burt, an assistant professor of psychology at Michigan State University stated, “Your genes are to some extent driving your social experiences” (telegraph.co.uk). The behaviors of those who carry the “rebel” gene include heavy drinking, lying, dangerous driving, or drug usage. Between 40 and 60 per cent of the population carry this gene. Studies have included male college students. It will be interesting to see if girls are really interested in “bad boys”, as I have often heard. Do nice guys really finish last?
There are several ways I could go with this concept as it pertains to the lives of Christians. If half of us carry a “rebel” gene, shouldn’t we be more aware of our behaviors and potential to do wrong? In Matthew 6:24, Jesus states that “No one can serve two masters”. There isn’t a fine line that we are allowed to walk. It is sad to consider that one might prefer the company of a “rebel”. Proverbs 24:17 states that we must not rejoice when our enemy falls. Is there anyone who prefers judgment to love? Jesus tells us not to judge (Matthew 7:1). We need to be the loving arms of God, not boastful Pharisees who push others away. Remember: “The last will be first” in the kingdom of heaven (Matt. 20:16). You may not be liked, but what really matters to God?

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